Showing posts with label great resources. Show all posts
Showing posts with label great resources. Show all posts

Saturday, November 22, 2014

Forever Mom Winner

The winner of the giveaway for "Forever Mom" by Mary Ostyn is....

Danell Hilliard (who commented via Facebook).  

Congrats, Danell!  Your book is on the way!

Thanks for all of the great questions everyone.  I'm working on a series of Q and A for January, so if you have more questions for a mama of a large adoptive family, I'd love for you to post some more below!  

Don't miss out on reading all of Mary's awesome books!

 

Sunday, May 26, 2013

Passion for Orphans Retreat

The retreat in CO this spring was so good.  The upcoming retreat this fall in TN should be even better!  One of my (in real life) best friends, Terina Dutton, will be one of the main speakers.  Don't miss it!passion for orphans


Saturday, March 9, 2013

Embracing Orphans Retreat

embracing orphans



I'm SO excited to let you all know about the upcoming Embracing Orphans Retreat April 5-7 being hosted by Mavuno Market and Heavenly Hope Ministries.

Terina from HHM is one of my dearest friends and I can't wait to see her again (maybe tomorrow I'll share the amazing way that God brought us together!).

I would LOVE to have you join us for this time of encouragement and refreshment for anyone involved in orphan care and I am looking forward to meeting some of my dear online friends in real life!

I'm looking forward to sharing more of our story during one of the breakout sessions and I'm excited to hear some other stories over the course of the weekend.

There is still time to register.  Check it out and let me know if I'll see you there!


Thursday, February 24, 2011

The Ultimate Goal

"The ultimate goal in life for the Christian is to glorify God -
not to pursue happiness or find fulfillment
or be loved and appreciated by others.
Those things are important and have their place,
but they're not to take precedence over pleasing Him in everything we do."

-Charles Swindoll
(from Strike the Original Match Bible Study Guide)

Currently reading this and finding wonderful nuggets of wisdom.
I highly recommend it!

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Broken-Down House


A Light in His Hands

So little preparation
so many
unrealistic expectations
so often
dreams are dashed
unwanted fears
realized.
Too few
understand where they are
too few
know where they're going
too many
feel alone and lost.
Yet the One who knows
and who understands
has joined the journey.
He holds a light
in His hands
and He is One
who can be trusted.

If you are looking for a book to read this year, pick up Broken Down House: Living Productively in a World Gone Bad by Paul David Tripp

Monday, October 25, 2010

Monday Musings

1. If you are parenting "children from hard places," you should routinely watch Christine's videos.

2. Yesterday one of my children had a terrible day. It was his birthday. ugh.

3. If you are parenting "children from hard places," you should routinely watch Christine's videos.

4. Christine says "whatever you feel like doing, do the exact opposite. Do you feel like screaming? Lower your voice to a whisper."

5. See, I told you that if you are parenting "children from hard places," you should routinely watch Christine's videos! (last time, I promise)

6. One of my new favorite blogs is "Life at the Willards." We met and had lunch with the Willards at the Together for Adoption conference that we went to last month. We can't wait to see what amazing plans God has for them. We want to help them raise adoption funds and if you want to help too, please check out their blog for ways you can purchase really awesome stuff that raises money for their adoption and for orphans and widows in Uganda!

7. The Willards had a great quote on the sidebar of their blog:

It can be so exhausting to parent children from "hard places"... So exhausting, but it isn't just about giving them a warm bed and full tummies. We wouldn't make it if that's all it was for... But, Let us be willing to be exhausted for the sake of their souls. That will glorify God.... Let us be willing.

Wow! I totally agree. I needed that encouragement today.

Amen sister! Who said that?

Oh.

It was me!* LOL!

*granted, the ideas were also expressed in two other blogs which are referenced in the original post

Thursday, September 30, 2010

We made it to T4A!

The Together For Adoption Conference starts tomorrow and we are here! Today, Jeff and I attended the pre-conference with Karyn Purvis and Michael and Amy Monroe of Empowered to Connect.

It has been incredible training and info so far. We were confirmed in many of the ways we have been thinking about adoption and in practical aspects of parenting. . . AND we were totally convicted and challenged in some ways too.

Oh, this parenting children from hard places stuff is good, so good. . . and SO hard to do sometimes.

Dr. Purvis talked about parents feeling like they were being nattered - being nibbled to death by little pirhanas -

I can relate.

What if you have 9 piranas nibbling?

No wonder I'm tired.

BUT, most of all, what I heard was the message of HOPE. How nice to hear her confirm the fact that ALL children from hard places can heal!

I have so many things going through my head and heart right now, but for those of you who couldn't be here, let me leave you with this nugget from Michael and Amy Monroe:

Love
wanting what is best for another
AND being committed to pursue it,
regardless of the cost.

May we never forget this in our marriages, in our parenting, or in any of our relationships with those around us.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Therapeutic Parenting - When Our Kids are Stuck


Oh my. . .

Have you ever wondered what my days are really like?

Ever wondered what parenting traumatized kids or kids with Reactive Attachment Disorder is like?

Well, watch this (and then watch Christine's other Therapeutic Parenting videos - there are 8 or so) and get a little glimpse.

Check out Christine's blog too. It is full of wonderful inspiration and information on a variety of subjects with just the right amount of subtle sarcasm to make it LOL funny!

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Adoptive Parents: Is it Hard? Have Faith!

To all of my dear friends who are hurting right now from failed adoptions, adoption disruptions, or suffering through the daily battles and frustrations of loving and praying for hurting, broken children,

May you listen (I recommend WATCHING this - but you can also get it just audio and/or read it)


and be encouraged!

God's Grace is sufficient for all of us!

Thursday, February 11, 2010

A Few Good Craft Recipes

I'm sure there are more, but here's where I always turn for my tried and true favorites!


The kool-aid playdough and the perfect play-dough are my favorites.

They are easy to make and safe to eat (just in case!)

This website also has great ideas for crafts, games, songs, and activities for most of the yearly holidays.

A Few Good Games

Originally I had titled this "A Few Good Board Games" but, as you will soon see, I decided to broaden the scope a little in order to include some of our favorites.

Games are a big part of our lifestyle of learning way of Tidal Homeschooling. My children LOVE having a morning or afternoon where they are completely free to just play the games from our bathroom cupboard.

Yes, you heard me correctly. We have an insanely large bathroom cupboard in the boys bathroom. Since we only have "a few good bath towels" (as in, ONE for each child) that hang on hooks, we have nothing more than a few rolls of toilet paper to store in this pantry size cupboard. A great place for games!

Hey, we go with what works!

I recently realized that this bathroom game closet was bulging and unorganized which meant that no one was really enjoying actually playing the games and so we purged and ended up with just what we love and use:

A Few Good Games
  • Playing cards
This gives you a relative treasure trove of play possibilities such as Nertz/Dutch Blitz, Hearts, Go Fish, Spoons, Rummy, Solitaire, and, our current favorite: Golf.
  • Yahtzee
A GREAT way to work on those math skills without even knowing it! Also, you can use the dice for other games like Shut the Box or Two's and Fives.
  • Sorry!
This just might be my children's favorite. In fact, we have 2 sets so all 8 "big kids" can play at once!
  • Monopoly/Monopoly Jr.
Another great way to work on math skills. Monopoly Jr. is very fun for the younger crowd!
  • Settlers of Catan
This is one that our oldest 4 have just learned to play. They LOVE it! It is sort of like Monopoly; only, you barter stuff like "sheep for wheat" and it only takes about an hour to play. Dads love this game too.
  • Uno, Phase 10, Skip Bo
Card games we love to play as a family. I think we have gone through about 3 sets of Uno cards and 2 sets of Phase 10 cards. My children even invented their own version of "team Uno."
  • Parchesi
  • Chess/Checkers
If you have the board, you might as well have the pieces for both games.
  • Memory
The "littles" love this, but my older kids will often join in on the fun.
  • Pick up Sticks
For some reason, this game often results in disagreements over if it "really moved" or not, but they seem to work it out and keep coming back to it.
  • Candyland
In the realm of "little kid" games, we prefer Candyland to Chutes and Ladders. It teaches the "littles" the idea of flipping a card and moving spaces. You can move right from this game into Sorry!
  • Apples to Apples
A VERY fun party game. It requires reading, so it isn't great for little ones but it is a wonderful resource for vocabulary development and one that my husband and I enjoy playing with friends.
  • Who Done It?
I think this game is still around. It is a little like "Clue" only slightly more complex and much more fun.
  • Life
Come on, you know you LOVED this game as a child! I was always hoping to land on ALL of the baby spaces so I could fill up my car with little pink and blue plastic people. hmm. . .
  • Mancala
  • Tri-ominos/Dominos/Quad-ominos
  • Pass the Pigs
Oh my goodness. This is a really funny little game that comes in its own small plastic case and is sold on the end rack where Uno and the other card games are sold. This one makes everyone laugh and laugh. It is also a good "math" game.
  • Othello
This is a strategy game for just 2 players. It is great to pull this out when I'm sensing a child may need a little fun one on one time with mom.

um. . . it still counts as a "few" if I keep it under 20,

right?

My game closet is still rather full, but please let me know if I missed any great ones.

I may just have to make room.

What are your family's favorites?

A Few Good Books

Ahh, books.

books.

books.

{smile}

I love them.

to narrow my list to just a few is quite a task.

I'll work on it though.

While I'm paring my list down to a few, check out this link to Elizabeth Bird's Top 100 Best Children's Books from a poll she recently did. I'll be checking it out too.

By the way, "A Few Good Books" list for me will be much longer than my toy list!

Saturday, December 26, 2009

Resource for 12 Days Celebration

Here is a great place to learn more!

The Twelve Days of Christmas

Twelve More Days of Christmas!

We had such a wonderful time truly celebrating Advent (the coming) this year, that we have decided to celebrate Christmas for 12 more days! As a part of our continued celebration of Christ's Birth, we will be doing/attempting some of the following:

Our Family's "12 Days" Grand Plan (Pretty Much)
  • Continuing to read and talk about the shepherds and the wise men visiting the Christ Child
  • Memorizing the 12 days song and it's possible true meaning
  • Baking sugar cookie cutouts each day to share with friends and neighbors. I have a set of 12 days cookie cutters we've been waiting to use!
  • We had some small gifts that are for the whole family that we saved - we will have the children choose 1 gift each day to open and use as a family.
  • We will add a set of 12 days ornaments (found at Target, also available at the Land of Nod) to our tree - one each day.
  • We LOVED reading "Jotham's Journey" so much during Advent, that we decided to keep going and read one of our favorite books, "One Wintry Night," during these next 12 days.
  • We will make our annual "Remembering God's Blessings in 2009" booklets together on New Year's Day.
  • I *think* we will have a Twelfth Night celebration and/or Epiphany Party on January 5 or 6.
Well, I am excited to continue celebrating (and I am glad the tree doesn't have to come down quite so soon!). Twelve more nights of carols, 12 more nights of lights, 12 more nights of gifts, 12 more nights of remembering His birth!

I would love to hear how any of you celebrate The Twelve Days or Epiphany. Please leave your ideas in the comments!

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Just for fun

If you've never taken a personality test before, here's a pretty good one that doesn't take too long.  I don't know how they ever figured out how to test these things!  It is pretty funny to read about your personality and say "Oh yeah - that is what I am like!"  So, here are my results:
ENTP - The "Originator"
Jungian Personality Types (Free Test)
ENTPs are logical, innovative, curious and downright inventive. They see possibilities for improvement everywhere and possess the ability to understand complex concepts. ENTPs are introspective and carefree nonconformists. They often neglect the more common areas of life while pursuing new solutions. ENTPs can be good conversationalists and exciting company.
ENTPs are idea people. Their perceptive abilities cause them to see possibilities everywhere. They get excited and enthusiastic about their ideas, and are able to spread their enthusiasm to others. In this way, they get the support that they need to fulfill their visions

So, this is why my wonderful husband always has a little smirk on his face and sarcastically says,
 "No way!" 

whenever I say (only about 20 times a day), 

"Hey, babe. . . I had an idea!"



Friday, December 12, 2008

Family Driven Faith




Have you read this book yet?  Family Driven Faith by Voddie Baucham is one of those great books that both encourages and challenges you.  If you haven't read it yet, I would encourage you to check it out!  

The only thing better than the book might be hearing Voddie preach this message (he is an inspiring preacher!).  You can hear some of his messages HERE.  

I highly recommend these two messages (I haven't listened to the rest yet)

The Centrality of the Home (a message he preached to an assembly of 1,000 pastors)
and/or
Getting Your House in Order (basically it is the message of his book, Family Driven Faith)

  My husband and I have been doing a lot of praying, thinking, and talking lately about the centrality of the home in the discipleship of children and on the place of youth ministry in the local church. . . we're pretty sure that the common ym model used in most churches today is not biblical nor effective (and my husband WAS a youth pastor for almost 10 years, so we've been there!).  

I would love to hear your thoughts after you listen in or if you've read the book!

Sunday, December 7, 2008

Fantastic List of Homeschooling Resources

I've been thinking for a while about making a list of my favorite homeschooling resources and posting them here on my blog.  Someday, this might actually happen. . . but, for today, here are my "TOP TWO" recommendations (I read or refer to both of these multiple times every year):  

"The Three R's" 
by Ruth Beechick 
(the older version is actually 3 small booklets; newer version is all in one)

I can't say enough about this VERY short, VERY comprehensive book.  Ruth Beechick is incredibly knowledgeable and gifted in teaching children the basics!  If I was stranded on a desert island or (more likely) a missionary living in a mud hut in Africa, this book and the Bible would be all I would NEED to educate my children very well!  If you are new to homeschooling, or if you are homeschooling a birth-10 year old and struggling and/or overwhelmed with too many resources, PLEASE get this book right away.  It will be an invaluable tool!

"Educating the Whole-hearted Child" 
by Clay and Sally Clarkson

A very good friend first gave me this book when Mr. Z was almost 5 after listening to me lament about how we wanted to homeschool BUT were so worried that he would never ride the bus, carry a lunchbox, go to prom, etc. . . LOL!   Praise the Lord that He knew just what I needed at that moment because this book confirmed everything I knew that I knew but just couldn't put into words.  What an encouragement!  What a challenge to raise my children to be whole-heartedly devoted to the Lord.  Even if you're not a homeschooler, many of the thoughts and ideas in this book about intentionally discipling your children make this a book worth having on your shelf!

And, since we're talking about great resources. . . 

Check out this post from Kendra over at Preschoolers and Peace.  It is all about basically free homeschooling resources available via the internet.  BTW, Preschoolers and Peace is a great resource itself!  You can even help to support P&P by purchasing one of the above resources through their site (I am not being paid to say this!).

Friday, December 5, 2008

A Time Audit

One of my good friends (an IRL, or "in real life" friend, as my husband calls them) had this great idea to do a time audit.  You can read her great post HERE.  I just LOVE this because as I have been working on my "time audit," I can really see where I have been wasting time, where I want to be spending my time, where I do not need to be spending time, etc. . . 

My official "time audit" will be posted soon, but I would love for everyone to go over and add their "time audit" thoughts to the original post over at "We Lift Our Eyes!"

Saturday, November 22, 2008

A "Found" Christmas

Yep, that's what we're having this year at our house:  a FOUND Christmas!  Instead of spending money on gifts we don't need, we're finding items we already own or creating gifts from things we have just laying around.  I've even "found" a few things in my neighbor's garage that she willingly donated towards our found Christmas (one of those tree-house doll houses for my daughter!).  

We had this idea months ago and it has been fun to watch and listen as everyone in our family finds and creates gifts to give this Christmas.  I don't want to give anything away in case some family member reads this blog, but it is quite amazing what people are coming up with.  Someone is getting a bread machine, another is getting an air-conditioner (crazy what we can find just laying around!), and there are quite a few homemade projects going on around here lately!

I was thrilled to stumble upon The Advent Conspiracy a few weeks ago; it seems that many others have also decided to give Christmas-shopping mania the boot and use that mooh-lah for something much more meaningful.  

Check it out!

Mission trip: India

I mentioned last week that my husband had just arrived back home after a 2 week trip to Rahjamundry, India. What an amazing trip he had! He went with 4 other men from our community (from 3 different local churches!) to visit with, help and minister with, and create future plans with Pastor Joseph of Good Samaritan's Home.

This, my friends, is an amazing story. It all started with a shoebox from Samaritan's purse. A wonderful local couple and their children sent a shoebox that was received by one of the children in Pastor Joseph's children's home in India. From that simple shoebox sent years ago, the Lord has blessed us beyond measure to be able to be a part of a unique and thriving ministry halfway around the world. Almost 50 children are now sponsored at the children's home in India and all of the sponsors come primarily from our very own small community. To read the whole story, visit http://gshministries.com/ and be sure to check out the "How this got started" page.  

If you are interested in sponsoring a child or in being a part of the many other ministries (feeding widows, eye-care clinics, island ministry, leper colony, or DVD ministry), be assured that 100% of your money will go to reach the very "least of these."